Dealing with people
I just realized that dealing with people is not as easy as it seems to be. Being just nice to them does not guarantee that you will get the same exact thing from them.. Take any examples from your experiences in a team work. There's always some kind of people who'll become a free rider, which I hate it so much.. This semester my x204 team does not work pretty well especially with those three guys. I wonder why,.. is it my fault that I didnt make them involved? Or they're just a bunch of slackerz that I should take a pity for them. Sigh...
People are different for each and every individual, I understand it crystal clear. But how to deal with people is the most important thing that we have to know, especially later on in our work environment. You must survive in order to be success. Hurdles and obstacles will challange all the way in your entire life, no matter what, and there's no way you can run. The real evil you must face in this world are other people.. therefore you must aware of them. I'm not telling that your friends, families, or other people around you are bad, but trust me.. one of a thousand people out there will probly try to hurt you or do any bad things to you.. why am i sound so pathetic?!?! dont know also...
Finals on the way, projects and papers are almost done in the next week..then GO BACK TO INDO...can't wait!! I'm gonna miss Bloomie though..hehehe..I feel like it's my hometown already even though it's a totally boring town to live in. Without college and friends, there's nothing you would ever think to live there..EVER..
alrite, trying to get back on track with my work now.. chao
posted by >> Ella @ 3:05 PM
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Ewww La ~ ~ ! why talk so philosophy like? since when hah? Miss Bloomie and miss me ok ! I m gonna be so patethic through winter break =( hic hic ..... Btw, how big can my list be? hehhehe
La...untuk kesekian kali gw merasa kenapa kok orang tega banget untuk membuat diri gw menanggung beban sendirian.pun itu adalah temen deket gw yang mungkin dah gw percaya hampir enam tahun ini.. you know,emang segalanya jadi berbeda ketika orang menghadapi suatu masalah.people are so individualistic.gw gak ngert, knapa diri gw harus jadi benci sama orang itu karena masalah kerja.coba gw ga pernah kerjasa sama dengan orang itu, mungkin sampe sekarang kita masih temenan baik. saling bisa hargain satu sama lain dan gak memandang rendah.loe tahu kan la, gw gak pernah perhitungan sama temen gw ndiri. sebisa mungkin gw pasti akan bantu kalau temen gw itu dateng untuk minta bantuan dan gw akan dengan seneng hati bantu itu. tapi kalau setelah gw bantu ternyata gw di"cebur"in dalem-dalem dan idup-idup sedangkan dia dengan enaknya pergi tanapa tahu bahwa gw dah "nyungsep" nerima beban itu dan setelah itu gw juga yang harus beroikir giman jalan keluarnya seakan-akan gw orang yang paling tahu semua, apa ga sakit ngeliatnya.mau marah ko ma temen ndiri, tapi ga marah ko kelewatan. La...gw sekarang lagi bener2 frustasi. hope you here...
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